Hello friends… After a long hiatus I’m back. I’ve missed you all so much. February is the month of love, but I tell you it was not a very good month for me. Work got the best of me, and I had absolutely no time for anything else. I’m so happy that’s over, and I can get back to what I love. The connection I have with my readers, is so important to me. Well… enough of that. Just know I really appreciate you all.
Now, let’s talk about this outfit! If it’s one thing I know, every woman should have a white button down shirt. It’s a must have, as it can be styled so many ways. I decided to style mine with this super cute pair of jeans, and I loved the end result. I purchased this shirt sometime last year while shopping for my vacation clothes. This is my second time wearing it, and I have fallen in love with it again. I think it’s because of the party in the back that really sold me.
But, what about these jeans. When I saw them online, I knew I had to have them. The tulip hem gave me a 70’s vibe, and I was so here for it. Sometime being a short woman have some perks, these jeans were actually ankle length, but on me they were full length. I always run into that, and it’s okay. So, to my petite woman, the look may not be the same as it is on the mannequin, but like Tim Gunn says “make it work”.
To complete my look, I went with a black pump. This shorty, needed a lift in the height category. Added my black bag that I scored on amazon, but something was missing. I needed a bit of color to really complete my overall look, and opted for a pair of red tassel drop earrings. Now, I was ready for a day of fun. What exciting things did you do Saturday? On another note, my white button down isn’t available online, so I’m sharing a few that I know you will love.
Hello everyone, I know it’s been a minute since my last post. I still can’t believe Christmas is so close, I usually go all out this time of the year, but I’ve been working so much, haven’t had much time to do anything else. Trust me when I say, I’m pushing myself to get in the spirit of my favorite holiday. I actually finished my tree yesterday, and loved the outcome. Now it’s time to finish my dining room table.
So, I’m coming today to share the cutest sweater that is a must have. From the ruffle sleeves, to the pearl embellishments. This sweater will keep you stylish and warm all at the same time. I decided to pair it with denim jeans, and my nude OTK boots. Added a pop of red with the earrings, and opted for my newest black bag to complete the look. Are you loving the statement sleeve trend? This girl is definitely here for it… Until next time hugs and kisses.
Hello everyone, I’m coming to you sharing my new love of the white boot trend. What’s funny is my mother said, if white boots were not trending you wouldn’t wear them. Well guess what she’s right! I don’t think I have ever own any white shoes. The look just never interest me. Wow… how time has changed, because they are the BOMB. I found these cute white boots from Target, yes Target. I feel they can be paired with almost anything. I opted for a cute dress that gave me a 70’s feel. So what do you think of this new white boot trend? FYI: I will be doing a three blog posts sharing my new found favorite.
This is probably the hardest post I will ever make, but here we go… It’s been six years since my last serious relationship, and at first I thought I was okay with that. Well lately I’ve been yearning to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. It’s that empty feeling, I feel sometimes. “Hard to face though” Now don’t get me wrong, I’ve gone on dates, but it never amounted to anything. Through this time, it has allowed me to work on me, so I can be the best I can be to my future King! I don’t want a man just for the sake of saying I have a man. My goal is, and has always been to have a man that will complete me.
In my quest for working on me I have also refrain from sexual intimacy. I know what you may be thinking, six years is a very long time, and OH it REALLY is. Well I suppose I put more focus on other things in my life that make me happy, and time just flew by. Trust me, I would love the opportunity to have the kind of intimacy that doesn’t end with my clothes off though. That’s very hard to find these days. I refuse to compromise myself just for that moment. I was asked by a friend don’t you like sex, my answer was of course I do. But… there is more to life than just the act itself. Can you Stimulate my mind?
As I look back on how long it’s been, I said know way it’s been that long (trust me it really has) where did the time go. However, I don’t want to wait another six years. But, when I think about it, I have zero tolerance for BS with men. Side note: it just might end up being another six years, but I hope not. Most of the men, I’ve come across lately don’t want to take the time to get to know you. What’s up with that?? I have people say you attract what you give out, what does that really mean? I carry myself like a lady, that deserves and want more.
The fact that I haven’t been in a relationship has also brought me closer to God, and the love I have for him is one that can’t be shaken. I pray daily, but I don’t ask God to send me a man. When it’s my time, it will happen and only then. Being single and alone doesn’t have to be a death sentence. I know that’s a hard pill to swallow, especially when you may see so many of your friends in successful relationships. And who likes being a third wheel, or the only single person at gatherings? So guess what, I will just continue attended events that don’t require a date. Now at the end of the day, I would be lying if I didn’t say I was a bit envious of those in happy relationship, but my time will come. Am I the only person left in this world thats single, I do feel that way sometime. You just never know what your friends or others have gone through that got them to that level of happiness. Focusing on YOU is key!
As adults we have to make hard choices, and that means looking deep inside yourself to re-evaluate and regroup. I’m loving the WOMAN I’m becoming in this time though, and my King will love me too. In the end, I don’t need a lot to make me happy. So in essence, I do have a very fulfilling relationship, and it’s with the almighty God, he never lets me down. He accepts me with my flaws and all. He doesn’t judge me. He loves me unconditionally. He brings me the joy that I need, not what I want. I have always had faith, and believed in God, but during this time my relationship with him has truly evolved.
If you are facing a similar situation, take this time to mediate and pray and know you are not alone. I say to all Women, don’t compromise who you are to be with a man just to say you have a man. YOU deserve more, and who doesn’t love a great love story. And always remember, being alone doesn’t mean lonely.
Until next time, have a great day!