Hello everyone, I’m coming to you sharing my new love of the white boot trend. What’s funny is my mother said, if white boots were not trending you wouldn’t wear them. Well guess what she’s right! I don’t think I have ever own any white shoes. The look just never interest me. Wow… how time has changed, because they are the BOMB. I found these cute white boots from Target, yes Target. I feel they can be paired with almost anything. I opted for a cute dress that gave me a 70’s feel. So what do you think of this new white boot trend? FYI: I will be doing a three blog posts sharing my new found favorite.
This is probably the hardest post I will ever make, but here we go… It’s been six years since my last serious relationship, and at first I thought I was okay with that. Well lately I’ve been yearning to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. It’s that empty feeling, I feel sometimes. “Hard to face though” Now don’t get me wrong, I’ve gone on dates, but it never amounted to anything. Through this time, it has allowed me to work on me, so I can be the best I can be to my future King! I don’t want a man just for the sake of saying I have a man. My goal is, and has always been to have a man that will complete me.
In my quest for working on me I have also refrain from sexual intimacy. I know what you may be thinking, six years is a very long time, and OH it REALLY is. Well I suppose I put more focus on other things in my life that make me happy, and time just flew by. Trust me, I would love the opportunity to have the kind of intimacy that doesn’t end with my clothes off though. That’s very hard to find these days. I refuse to compromise myself just for that moment. I was asked by a friend don’t you like sex, my answer was of course I do. But… there is more to life than just the act itself. Can you Stimulate my mind?
As I look back on how long it’s been, I said know way it’s been that long (trust me it really has) where did the time go. However, I don’t want to wait another six years. But, when I think about it, I have zero tolerance for BS with men. Side note: it just might end up being another six years, but I hope not. Most of the men, I’ve come across lately don’t want to take the time to get to know you. What’s up with that?? I have people say you attract what you give out, what does that really mean? I carry myself like a lady, that deserves and want more.
The fact that I haven’t been in a relationship has also brought me closer to God, and the love I have for him is one that can’t be shaken. I pray daily, but I don’t ask God to send me a man. When it’s my time, it will happen and only then. Being single and alone doesn’t have to be a death sentence. I know that’s a hard pill to swallow, especially when you may see so many of your friends in successful relationships. And who likes being a third wheel, or the only single person at gatherings? So guess what, I will just continue attended events that don’t require a date. Now at the end of the day, I would be lying if I didn’t say I was a bit envious of those in happy relationship, but my time will come. Am I the only person left in this world thats single, I do feel that way sometime. You just never know what your friends or others have gone through that got them to that level of happiness. Focusing on YOU is key!
As adults we have to make hard choices, and that means looking deep inside yourself to re-evaluate and regroup. I’m loving the WOMAN I’m becoming in this time though, and my King will love me too. In the end, I don’t need a lot to make me happy. So in essence, I do have a very fulfilling relationship, and it’s with the almighty God, he never lets me down. He accepts me with my flaws and all. He doesn’t judge me. He loves me unconditionally. He brings me the joy that I need, not what I want. I have always had faith, and believed in God, but during this time my relationship with him has truly evolved.
If you are facing a similar situation, take this time to mediate and pray and know you are not alone. I say to all Women, don’t compromise who you are to be with a man just to say you have a man. YOU deserve more, and who doesn’t love a great love story. And always remember, being alone doesn’t mean lonely.
Until next time, have a great day!
Happy Sunday, can you believe November is right around the corner. Where has this year gone? But, on another note that only means that Christmas will be here before you know it. And for those that don’t know, that’s my favorite holiday.
One thing I realized about Fall and Winter is having a great jacket can change the total look of your outfit. That’s exactly how I felt when I put this jacket on. This camo jacket can be styled so many ways. I decided to pair my jacket with black jeans, black sheer top, and neutral color booties. To really elevate my look, I added a pop of color with my bag and earrings.
Camo jackets is one of those styles that will always be around. Definitely a staple piece to add to your wardrobe. Another option on styling the jacket is with a cute skirt, thigh high boots, and a lace tank. Trust me, this jacket will be on major repeat this season, because the options are endless. My top or booties are not available online, so I’m sharing a few styles I know you will love.
Well… the weekend is almost here. What exciting things do you have planned? This girl will be working the entire weekend. Yeah I know what you’re thinking, but someone has to do it. I’m stopping in to share this beautiful leopard print cardigan. I first spotted the cardigan at the Set to Stage event I participated in, as it was apart of my mannequin look. I liked it so much I had to buy it. What women doesn’t love a great cardigan? I decided to pair the cardigan with my mustard dress that I purchased last year, and I was beyond excited with the overall look. Pushing boundaries with Fashion is so much fun, when was the last time you step out of your comfort zone? Next time, take a chance with your next outfit, you might surprise yourself. A few of the pieces are no longer available, so I’m sharing a few that I think you will really like.
I’m coming to you to share these oh so cute embroidered jeans. Because what kind of friend would I be if I kept them all to myself. As always, doing a bit of shopping online, and was instantly drawn to the detail on the jeans. They were Gloria Vanderbilt and I hadn’t worn any of her jeans since high school. I only wished that I had sized down one, they were a little big. Nonetheless I wasn’t going to waste time sending them back. However; the colors in the jeans, I knew would be a perfect match with my burgundy cold shoulder top. These jeans would look great with a pair of sneakers, I opted to wear booties and I loved the overall look. My navy floppy hat brought the entire outfit together. Don’t you get that 70’s vibe when you see floppy hats, I know I do. These jeans are a statement piece all by themselves, that’s why any top would look great with them. So what are you waiting for get out there and get you a pair!
Who would have ever thought I would be wearing velvet. Well… when I saw this dress online at Kohls I knew it was for me. Everything about this dress screamed fall, and I was so here for it. I knew I wanted to pair it with my star booties, because after all they were velvet as well. I think I have a new love, and it’s VELVET. Finding dresses that are petite friendly, like this one makes my online shopping events so worth it. Now let’s talk about the color of the dress and booties (stars: yes,) this rich blue color is going to be one of my favorite colors for the season. So, don’t be surprise if you see me in many more velvet dresses. When I find something I like, I can’t be stopped. What are you crushing on this fall season?
Let the fun begin, and by that I mean vacation. I’m always so excited when I get to do absolutely nothing. Although I have a few events planned for this week, I just plan on resting. Sharing with you today this stunning green pleated top that I paired with these gorgeous booties. But, let’s talk about these distressed jeans that I’ve had a few years, but will never go out of style. When I tell you they are extremely comfortable, they came with a pre-cuff, but I cuffed them a few more times to really showcase my booties. Until next time, have a great day!